my housemate

People say that if lovers or friends can survive from either living together or traveling together, then they can be lovers and friends for a life time.  We survived from both, not saying that we worked together for more than one year and now we are learning driving together.

Obviously  we are totally different people. I am a morning person but you can sleep until afternoon if not heading for work. I like all these Chinese culture and food while you are not interested at all. (Sometimes I think even an ABC is more like a Chinese than you.) I see freedom as the top of my life but you try to prove yourself by working hard.

I think the reason we can get it through and get to know each other better and better is because that we both respect each other and leave some space between us. And to respect is not just saying you don’t say something offensive, this is the minimum requirement, it involves more than that including to put your feet in other’s shoes, to understand the circumstances behind one’s behavior and words. Never push other to do something he or she not comfortable with. Don’t try to be right all the time. I realize that this is necessary for all the relationship especially for people live together. If couples can manage to do that and think about how I can love and care my partner more rather than getting more, Then marriage can be amazing.

Like I wrote on your birthday card, I really appreciate the time we have been together. Thanks for tolerating me in many places and I learned a lot from you such as how to treat your life more seriously from by doing small things carefully.

Cheers! My dear Dino.

 

 

Talking about the pictures, this is the one of the limited days we can share a wonderful day together having lunch in nice restaurant without rushing to work afterwords, watching a movie in the theater, going to a lecture, shopping in a supermarket and going home watching movie again!!! It of course worth being remembered, isn’t it?